Tuesday, February 14, 2023

The Rewards of Supporting my Son through College are Now Being Offset by Medical and Fiscal Costs Previously Hidden

As the idiom goes, ”Hindsight is 20/20”.

This is to inform children, teens, and college students with “2E” Level 2 Autism and/or their families regarding two problems of David’s that hopefully you can plan for and avoid:

[1] Medical effects upon income:

[A] Autism’s symptoms:     

"Level 2" Autism meant that, for David to earn high enough grades to receive fellowships to fund graduate school, we had to delay the “Supported Living Services” (SLS) and other community training that normally replaces college attendance.

By having me provide full time job coaching, secretarial, domestic services, errand-running, etc, David’s only job was to study. Only in this manner could he endure his long academic “workday”. 

(Warning! — If your son or daughter relies upon SSI, the Student Earned Income Exclusion normally ends at age 22. However, I’m not a trained benefits specialist nor an attorney, so please consult a professional before deciding whether to follow in my ignorant footsteps).

Once college ended, I quit, so David's daytime hours were split between work, his Community “Day Program” and his SLS program. (The way most "Level 2" Autistic adults live instead of college).

This means that he can now only earn income part-time. His income's so low that he must rely upon a financial aid package of government programs to survive. 

[B] Other symptoms:

In addition to the Autism itself impacting David’s ability to earn enough to survive without subsidies, researchers are warning about a much-overlooked-during-childhood diagnosis of "Habitual Dysphagia". The second paragraph of the following article states that "Short term symptoms may be negligible, but long-term consequences may be life altering".

Warning: If you miss a significant hidden diagnosis before age 22, you might place at risk your son or daughter’s government benefits. I am not an attorney, so I highly recommend consulting one if you are hoping that someday your college-bound son or daughter might be able to receive Disabled Adult Child benefits when you retire.

Here's the article:

Autism and Dysphagia &/or digestive disorders


[2] Financial:  

For the reasons stated above in my own son’s story, and similar issues told by numerous other adults with “Twice Exceptionality” (Level 2 “Savant Syndrome Autism”, “High-IQ/Level 2 Autism”, etc), many adults cannot go on to earn the income that they’d hoped for during college.

No problem for the privileged few from wealthy families who inherit large trust funds. (Such as the friends in whose footsteps I followed… oops!).

If, however, you are a non-wealthy family member considering serving as your Level 2 or Level 3 son's or daughter's assistant throughout college, I recommend that you first read the following book:

"Autism Job Club", by Bernick and Holden. It contains significant statistical information regarding the problem of chronic unemployment for the majority of adults with autism regardless of college degrees.


[3] Post-college living arrangements:

Finally, before investing time and/or finances in college, please note that there is a massive crisis involving supportive living arrangements for adults with autism.

My California-based friends and I address this in our online support group:

Developmental Disability Future Planning Group.

Other groups for similar networking:

AASCEND (San Francisco in-person, but globewide online)

Parents Helping Parents (Nationwide)

Future For Our Kids (Placer County)


Sunday, March 13, 2022

The Need for a Cradle-to-Aging System for People with Autism, Another Type of DD, or ID

 

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

Recommendation regarding investing in grad school during these pandemic-impacted economic times

 Hello adults with high-IQ who require 1:1 staffing, your families, and other members of your Person-Centered Planning Teams:

Before you get too excited by David's and my story, I have the following warning:

At the time that I made the tremendous investment in David's dream to pursue a PhD in experimental physics, I was, like everyone else on this planet, unaware of the impending COVID-19 pandemic, and its disastrous economic consequences. If I had been helping David through college during times as hard on autism families as we are now enduring, his "Plan C" dream of a practical associates degree from a community college in something related to software development with physics classes for fun, would have been a great accomplishment. If your family is not wealthy enough to follow in my footsteps, and you need to make a similar modification to your dream, then I strongly recommend that you avoid risking terrible debt.

Remember, David DID NOT INCUR debts. If your grade point average isn't high enough to assure scholarships and fellowships, I DO NOT RECOMMEND pursuing graduate school until after America bounces back from the economic effects of the pandemic.

With this said, science research cannot afford to continue missing out on the potential locked within the minds of high-IQ students with autism who require 1:1 staffing.

This is why I'm communicating with agencies to try to gather the funds for a foundation that will assist families like ours.

If you're interested in joining me in this important, globally-significant discussion, please leave a comment below, or email me at:

ddfp.planning @ gmail (dot) com



Tuesday, December 14, 2021

This Holiday Season, Please Support Owners of Businesses with Developmental Disabilities

 Hello Everyone! Happy Holidays!  🎄🎅🤶 🔯

Are you looking for a way to support disabled owners of Micro-Enterprise businesses this shopping season? Well, how about attending the: 

Micro-enterprise owners' virtual fair of Progressive Employment Concepts 

 Wednesday December 15, 2021 11:15 am - 1:00 pm. 

Shop at the event itself, or order your hand painted Christmas cards, printed t-shirts, button/magnet ornaments, canvas tote bags, crossbody cell phone bags, Christmas ornaments, gift cards for shredding services, and more! 

For the Zoom link, you can email me at:

ddfp.planning@gmail (dot) com
😇


 

Friday, June 25, 2021

Spring 2021 Update -- Autism and the "Brain-Gut-Microbiome Axis"

 ✋  Hi! I'm sorry to fall so far behind posting here. Today's post is about the role of the brain-gut-microbiome axis in autism. I recommend that every adult with autism, and every parent or guardian of an autistic child research this topic. Here's a PMC report to get you started:

Brain-Gut-Microbiome and Autism

 Science -- including medical science -- doesn't have all the answers; researchers are constantly learning, which means parents like me are constantly evaluating the mistakes we made due to lack of medical awareness back when I was a young mother of an autistic child.

Last July, in the midst of the pandemic panic, David's digestion problems progressed so dramatically that it caused him to lose a dangerous amount of weight. Via "teladoc" (video appointments), his gastroenterologist diagnosed him with "Functional Dyspepsia". This was followed up by video appointments and emailing with his dietitian, and I took over the at-home role of nutritionist specializing in menu planning for the purpose of gaining weight.

Wow! Talk about a steep learning curve! I've learned so much that  thinking about getting officially certified as a nutritionist as a secondary career. While most of America is obese and needs help losing weight, David needs help gaining it without profound digestive complications and, from what I'm reading online, so do many, many other autistic people.

So, it may surprise you to read on a blog entitled "College and Career Autism Dream" that my top advice to you is not about academics or career preparation -- it's about health! Before you plan academics, look into whether your son or daughter has hidden digestion issues that could bloom later in life. If David had been diagnosed with "functional dyspepsia" as a child, I would have created the nutrition management plan now in place, and would have prioritized his academic and life program very differently. In David's case, it's "better late than never". But in the case of your young child, you can "nip the situation in the bud early".

I wish you and your family well.


 

Wednesday, December 9, 2020

Three of the Ways that a "Fully Included Academic Education" Prepped David for College Success

First, for an introduction to the D.M. Nisson, PhD story, click HERE to see my blog post of June 15, 2020.

For today's post on the topic of the advantages of a "Fully Included Education", here are three of the many ways that I feel my son's inclusive education contributed to his later college success:

1. Access to an academic curriculum

Not everyone has as high an IQ as David's, but when it comes to children's brains which are still developing, we should never "judge a book by its cover", and exclude a seemingly low IQ student from access to academics. Kids' brains can change a lot between kindergarten and grade 12! Had I gone along with the public school's insistence upon denying my son an academic education based upon his superficial appearance of "a hopeless case" at age 4, he would have lacked the proper foundation in math and science to study a STEM major in college.

2. Appropriately modeled behavior

It's always important to have a least one child in every group who follows the classroom rules so the other students can witness someone being rewarded with smiles and esteem-building words of appreciation from the teacher. In a class filled mostly of children who understand classroom behavior basics, those who have disabilities challenging them in this area will learn appropriate behavior more quickly than children segregated into a classroom filled entirely with children who share behavior difficulties. My son was able to learn how to function properly in a college classroom because he was surrounded by non-disabled peers who helped the teacher teach him how to behave in his K-12 classrooms.

3. Preparation for future college and/or professional teamwork

College requires teamwork, in class and in research groups. By high school at the latest, teachers need to be noting into student "Cumulative Files" and other records the teamwork strengths and weaknesses of each student. Who are the leaders, and will someday play the roles of future Project Coordinators, CEO's, or Principal Investigators? Or, which elementary students now shining in their current roles of "getters", or of "double-checkers", will grow up to succeed as Resource Investigators, or Completers-Finishers at college and beyond. Self knowledge in teamwork awareness is absolutely crucial to success in a college level research group, and this might be the single most important gift that my son's "fully included education" provided him.

These are just a few of the ways that my son's inclusive education contributed to his dramatic college level success. In conclusion, if you are the parent of a child with a disability, I encourage you to take the steps needed for your school district, or private school, to include them in an academically-based classroom. Bear in mind, however, that 'inclusion" is a relatively new idea, and each child's needs are unique, so even the best administrators and teachers often benefit from professional inclusion guidance. Are you UK-based? If so, I recommend that you consider contacting Inclusivity Consultant, Nazia Ansari of Inclusivity Education.

Monday, June 15, 2020

Intro to the D.M. Nisson, PhD Person-Centered Planning Success Story

So, what's the big deal? Many colleges are welcoming "autistic" students into their programs, right?

What's different about the story of David M. Nisson, PhD?

Actually, the difference is quite significant!
Autism is on a spectrum, but a lot of people don't realize this. So, most of the college programs are only set up to help "ASD" students who function independently at the mild end of the spectrum (Level 1), and exclude those Level 2 and 3 students with classic autism who require protective supervision.
But, that fact didn't stop me from backing my son's dream, nor did it scare off the boldly open minded team at UC Davis Physics and Astronomy.

Because most parents are unable to locate the resources to do as I did, David is the first American diagnosed by the late Dr. Darold Trefffert with aide-dependent, Level 2-3 "Savant Syndrome Autism" to earn his doctorate in physics from a top ranked United States university. I am Mary Nisson -- the mom who helped him get it done. During the years I spent at David's side while he studied at UC Davis, I recorded this blog. To begin at the beginning, scroll down to 2009 and enjoy reading!  🎓 😊

Curious how our partnership succeeded?

The key was to 

[A] Reduce David's stress level and,

[B] Keep David's genius free to focus on his schoolwork and research, by letting me "sweat the small stuff" (that is often the cause of autistic students dropping out). 

So, while David was a lower division undergrad student at the respected Cosumnes River College (CRC) in Sacramento, California, and later upper division and grad school student at the world-renowned UC Davis Department of Physics and Astronomy (UCD), 

I:

  • provided him basic Protective Supervision from such dangers as cars in parking lots and chemicals in laboratories; 🚗🚗 ⚛️
  • advised and troubleshooted with counselors, professors and other staff in how to accommodate David’s unusual classroom communication and health-related needs; 

These were a few of the supports that I provided so that David was able to produce scientific work good enough to receive scholarships, fellowships and grants to fund his bachelors and masters degrees.  $  🎉

Ready to follow in my footsteps?

As I said earlier, even with the new Self Determination Program and Person Centered Planning, most parents won't be able to follow in my footsteps all the way to the top of "the mountain", but I hope some can at least make it partway. 

Humanity and the planet upon which we depend need us to provide profoundly disabled, IHSS-requiring students an academic curriculum to prep for college so that we can access the potential in every potential scientist’s mind!  🌎 

My books are on the way; in the meantime, head back to the posts in 2009 and start reading. And, please feel free to ask me questions in the "comment" section, or to email me at: 

ddfp.planning@ gmail (dot) com.